Dislike of the One State

The main thing that I would strongly dislike about being a part of the One State is not being able to have a family.  This dislike is broad because to me having a family is having a spouse, children, parents, brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles, cousins, etc.  I know it would be very hard for me as a member of One State to grow up with out a family and not to being able to start one.  It is odd that something as simple as having a family is not acceptable in One State.